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- I used to overreact without thinking, demanding immediate action,
when I got angry with my son. The STRESS SOLVER helped me to
notice my thoughts racing from an adrenaline rush caused by quick
shallow breathing as my heart beat rapidly increased. I would
yell about numerous things I was upset about and order him to,
"Do what I say right now!" The STRESS SOLVER helped me
to stop and calm down before I said anything when I became
angry. I am now able to pause, as my adrenaline comes down,
while making a mental note to stick to the one issue that is a problem
instead of overwhelming my son with my anger. I'm starting to
talk to my son, discussing ways to solve the problem with him instead
of just yelling at him. My son doesn't get so worked up because
I don't get so worked up. The STRESS SOLVER gave me the ability
to calm myself despite the upsetting situation so I can communicate
with my son without intimidating him.
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